Don't be serious, be sincere !!

Don't just have career or academic goals. Set goals to give you a balanced, successful life. I
use the word balanced before successful. Balanced means ensuring your health, relationship, 
mental peace are all in good order. There is no point of getting a promotion on the day of your
breakup. There is no fun in driving a car if your back hurts. Shopping is not enjoyable if you 
mind is full of tensions.